Another False Dichotomy: Selfish vs Selfless

Being selfish versus being selfless is a good hamster-wheel-of-the-mind for spinning off confusion and guilt. If you’re selfish, all you care about is your own needs. If you’re selfless, your needs don’t enter the picture; you’re only here for others. What if serving others meets your needs? What if being only selfish ultimately results in […]

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The hardest part

When you have a tough problem, the hardest part is figuring out how to figure it out. After that it’s easier, because it’s just about figuring it out. When you don’t even know how to figure it out — that’s hard. […]

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Am I Nuts?

I hope this post finds you well and happy! I’m on day 8 of my launch which is about a 12-day process. I’m learning a lot! and having fun. Everyone who’s seen the Blackbelt Communication Skills (NVC) Coaching Program has had awesome things to say! The program is for people who want to bring power, […]

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The Good Kind of Freaking Out

First of all, I’m sorry for being so out of touch. It’s just that I’ve been working so hard on this Video Training Series for you (which is free) — and I realize that when I get really focused, two of the things that take a hit are blogging and email. And, yes, I’m freaking […]

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Love and Wisdom

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“When I look inside and see that I am nothing, that is wisdom. When I look outside and see that I am everything, that is love… and between those two, my life turns.” -Nisargadatta Maharaj, teacher and philosopher, 1897-1981 […]

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