Another False Dichotomy: Selfish vs Selfless

Being selfish versus being selfless is a good hamster-wheel-of-the-mind for spinning off confusion and guilt. If you’re selfish, all you care about is your own needs. If you’re selfless, your needs don’t enter the picture; you’re only here for others. What if serving others meets your needs? What if being only selfish ultimately results in […]

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Am I Nuts?

I hope this post finds you well and happy! I’m on day 8 of my launch which is about a 12-day process. I’m learning a lot! and having fun. Everyone who’s seen the Blackbelt Communication Skills (NVC) Coaching Program has had awesome things to say! The program is for people who want to bring power, […]

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The Good Kind of Freaking Out

First of all, I’m sorry for being so out of touch. It’s just that I’ve been working so hard on this Video Training Series for you (which is free) — and I realize that when I get really focused, two of the things that take a hit are blogging and email. And, yes, I’m freaking […]

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The Big Why

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Ask yourself what you want, and then ask one of the following two questions: If you had that, then what would you have? If you had that, what would that give you? These two questions will take you deeper and deeper to universal human needs. Try it. And if you have any questions, enter them […]

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Pre-empting confusion

I’ve been working hard, building the “Blackbelt Communication Skills Coaching Program.” This is an online program that will include about 50 training videos, monthly Q&A/Coaching calls, a live event (and a few extra surprises). I’m very excited and I know this program will benefit many people! But I realize the term Blackbelt may confuse a […]

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